Childlove movement was proposed for deletion. This page is an archive of the discussion about the proposed deletion. This page is no longer live. Further comments should be made on the article's talk page rather than here so that this page is preserved as an historic record. The result of the debate was ambiguous. Failing to reach a clear consensus, the default decision is to Keep. In addtion, there were strong suggestions for future mergers or content changes (which may, of course, be carried out by any reader/editor). Rossami 22:57, 18 Aug 2004 (UTC)


Current tally

Keep: Acegikmo1, Aljandy, bbx, Cecropia, CesarB, Darksun, Dmn, Elf-friend, Erich, Gary D, Golbez, Meelar, Mr. Grinch, Rhobite, ShaunMacPherson, SWAdair, The Steve, Sethmahoney, Spleeman, SWAdair, Zanthalon, Starx

Neutral: Geogre

Delete: Neutrality ; Lucky 6.9 ; Ilγαηερ ; siroχo ; Fire Star ; WOT ; Samboy ; Mark ; Ambi ; Bishonen ; Danny ; Andris ; Aris Katsaris ; SV/Stevertigo; Mike H/TheCustomOfLife ; DanLovejoy ; Andrevan; rico

Merge: Cecropia ; Golbez ; Mark ; Stormie ; Sean Curtin/Gtrmp  ; Robert Merkel ; Jallan ; Dpbsmith ; Ilya ; BryanNR ; Chameleon

Keep: 21 Merge: 8 ; Delete: 18 Golbez 05:25, 13 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Tally 2

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I dont know where Samboy's tally numbers are coming from, but these are mine. Are there comments here that are not visible or were deleted since I cant find Ambi anywhere except in the tally. --ShaunMacPherson 08:50, 7 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Ok I found it, someone verify my numbers, we should do a real tally and have people verify their vote is in the right spot. --ShaunMacPherson 08:53, 7 Aug 2004 (UTC)
I see Ambi is a "keep" instead of a delete vote; however he clearly votes for delete (do cntl+F and look for "Ambi" on this page) Samboy 09:31, 7 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Keep : Merge : Delete

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Keep

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Acegikmo1, Aljandy, bbx, Cecropia, CesarB, Darksun, d8te, Dmn, Elf-friend, Erich, Gary D, Meelar, Mr. Grinch, Rhobite, ShaunMacPherson, SWAdair, The Steve, Zanthalon, Sethmahoney, Spleeman, SWAdair, Zanthalon, ReallyNiceGuy

Merge

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BryanNR, dpbsmith, Golbez, Ilya, Jallan, Robert Merkel, Sean Curtin, Stormie,

Delete

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Ambi, Andre, Andris, Aris Katsaris, Bishonen, Danlovejoy, Fire Star, Ilγαηερ, Mark, Mike H, Samboy, siroχo, SV, WOT, Neutrality, Ta bu shi da yu


Since Cecropia voted "Keep or Merge", I will make his vote a keep vote. Based on this tally, we have seven votes to keep, one abstainer, seven to delete, and two to merge. If we make the other two merge votes votes to delete, we will have seven to keep, one abstainer, and nine votes to delete. Samboy 21:55, 3 Aug 2004 (UTC)

LOL! This guy must be the same one that invented the hanging chad... --Zanthalon 19:25, 7 Aug 2004 (UTC)
This isn't Slashdot Zanthalon; keep your personal attacks to yourself. Samboy 20:38, 8 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Samboy is absolutely right. A bit of good-natured ribbing has no place whatsoever in such an austere place as Wikipedia. I consider my hand duly slapped. ::ouch!:: --Zanthalon 19:20, 9 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  • Please note that decisions to delete or keep are admin decisions (which explains why some "tough" decisions aren't made for days and days). Admins are given much more discretion in this than in RFA, but consensus to delete is about 2/3 with consideration given to the content of the comments, also in regard to what to do with the material is the article is not kept (remove entirely, merge part or all of the content with other articles). Since I have participated in this, I won't be making the final decision one way or the other, but just wanted you to know, since a tally is being kept. -- Cecropia | Talk 01:27, 4 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Current tally: Keep: 10 ; Neutral 1; Delete 8 ; Merge 4. Samboy 05:09, 4 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Keep: 10 ; Neutral 1; Delete 9 ; Merge 4. Samboy 07:26, 4 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Keep: 10 ; Neutral 1; Delete 10 ; Merge 3 Samboy 08:45, 4 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Keep: 10 ; Neutral 1; Delete 12 ; Merge 5 Samboy 19:20, 4 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Keep: 11 ; Neutral: 1 ; Delete: 14 ; Merge: 7 Samboy 08:28, 5 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Keep: 13 ; Neutral: 1 ; Delete: 15 ; Merge: 8 Samboy 18:07, 6 Aug 2004 (UTC)

If keep wins, I'll switch my vote to delete. I don't think an article by this name should continue to exist, but I don't think the information should be summarily destroyed, either. Merge with pedophilia. Count mine as Delete/Merge. Which is the proper vote if this is how I feel? --Golbez 05:49, 4 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Sounds like a "merge" vote to me. Samboy 06:00, 4 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Discussion

Failed the Google Test [1] with only five hits (two from Wikipedia and three from Usenet). Non-notable, delete.--Neutrality 02:24, 3 Aug 2004 (UTC)

If only you were right. The pages that redirect to that article, most prominently boylover - shortform for camouflage BL - get you thousands of google hits. As you see on the talk page, because pedophiles attempted to abuse wikipedia for propaganda about harmlessness of child sexual abuse the title was changed to what it is now. Get-back-world-respect 02:36, 3 Aug 2004 (UTC)
I didn't realize that we were advocating for 'child porn on Wikipedia', but writing an article about the pedophile movement. If the article NPOV, as it should be, then it should be neither advocating nor impugning their point of view but simply discribing it. --ShaunMacPherson 08:30, 7 Aug 2004 (UTC)
I'd just like to voice my opinion that this is a singularly inappropriate use of Niemoller, who could have said "First they came for the child molestors" but had the wisdom not to. - Nunh-huh 05:18, 3 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Why the images are important to keep if the article is kept Those of you who are against the article should be especially interested in keeping the images, which are disturbing, but not pornographic and certainly not advocacy for paedophilia. Please read the discussion I had with Samboy concerning the images at User_talk:Samboy#Childlove_images -- Cecropia | Talk 06:09, 3 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Kind of ironic, because the retention of the pictures is being advanced actually for a horrendously POV purpose, only it's "good" POV. I must admit, though, I had similar feelings about that very point. I also admit I engage in the same sort of thing when I argue to people on POV topics, "present all the facts neutrally, and if these people are really the rotters you say, the facts will sink them, so you don't have to use sneaky POV to do so." I'm sorry Lucky left. =sigh= Big-time button, apparently. I'm sorry when people suffer; very little is worth that. --Gary D 07:10, 3 Aug 2004 (UTC)
In Wikipedia, we don't expect articles to be NPOV. A controversial article is going to be full of POV--it almost has to, unless it is very, very short. An NPOV treatment of this article would say "The childlove movement is a political and social movement of people who advocate that adults should have legal sexual access to children." Period. Anything much more has to be POV because it will divide between advocates and opponents. What we do expect is that the material be presented in an NPOV fashion and that it be balanced. The magazine cover with minimal caption is NPOV. If you say "This cover illustrates the admiration that childlovers have for children" or "This cover shows what pedophiles really have in mind," that is POV, even if some people would think one or the other statement was true. == Cecropia | Talk 07:21, 3 Aug 2004 (UTC)


I just noticed that my previous comment here has been deleted, by Neutrality if I'm reading the history right. The comment went like this:

I don't know if the e-mailing is still possible at this time--it's hard to test it without spamming Lucky--but then it must have been obvious that my factual info was going to date, and it was properly timestamped, so it could hardly have been misleading people. My intention was to express through this info frustration that Lucky was leaving, and to a call for others to join me in asking him to stay. To make this clearer I put a big honking headline over it. All was deleted. Why was that? --Bishonen 09:10, 4 Aug 2004 (UTC)

I have emailed Ralph (Lucky) in the past. I will send him a letter and then send the email address on to you. Mike H 18:56, Aug 5, 2004 (UTC)

More Votes

  • I'm not sure there is a Freedom of Speech issue here. Wikipedia is an encyclopedia that operates according to its own rules. Wikipedia:Wikipedia is not a soapbox. The question is whether this article is encyclopedic, is significant, accurate and written in an NPOV fashion.
  • The movement exists and is notable and it comes under the aegis of free speech. Deleting an article about it because you find the movement and its proponents distasteful is just as much censorship as if you did not allow them their say. An article about the movement is certainly significant and encyclopaedic, accuracy and NPOV are more difficult to achieve or even ascertain. The Steve 20:09, Aug 4, 2004 (UTC)
  • It's notable? If this "movement" had been notable under *this* name then the majority of Google finds about it would not take us back to Wikipedia. Aris Katsaris 04:27, 5 Aug 2004 (UTC)
You must realize that the childlove movement is disliked, especially disliked if so many people are acting hysterical here over a mere encyclopedia article on the issue. As such, i expect that any websites on this topic that google covers would be short lived, but that does not mean that the movement does not exist or is not notible. --ShaunMacPherson 08:06, 7 Aug 2004 (UTC)
"Keep an eye on" the article? Are you kidding? Do you think I want Ashcroft to have a file on me showing that I once "had an article on pedophilia in my watchlist?" How am I going to explain that if the times change and we have another McCarthy-like era, and if you think that can't happen all I can say is that a lot of people didn't think it could happen the first time, either. I'm not even all that happy about having my username appearing in this deletion debate, if you must know.
Comment: I think splitting it back into girllove movement and boylove movement maybe a good idea. We can keep childlove as a pointer to these two articles. As well it would be useful to state in the introduction that the main *type* of love that these members advocate is usually sexual in nature. --ShaunMacPherson 07:54, 8 Aug 2004 (UTC)
I don't understand what purpose could be served by splitting this into boylove and girllove. They both describe the same notable behavior--the desire to have and justify sex with prepubescent children. What substantially different things can be said about the two "branches" of pedophilia? -- Cecropia | Talk 02:04, 9 Aug 2004 (UTC)
So, I ask again, why don't we have a Child rape article instead of this mealy-mouthed "love" crap? In the UK, Canada, the USA, Australia and NZ (whence most of our editors hail) that is the legal definition of sex with children. Much less POV and more accurately encyclopaedic a title, that. Fire Star 02:19, 9 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Actually, that would be pretty much definitionally much more POV. -Seth Mahoney 16:28, Aug 9, 2004 (UTC)
Thanks for your viewpoint. I do agree that there is a lot of prejudice against pedophiles, but I am willing to make the discinction between an active pedophile and a recovering pedophile. Just as, in the 1950s, groups of addicts getting together to recover from drug addiction were arrested, it may be possible for groups of recovering pedophiles who are seeking recovery today to get arrested, so strong is the anti-pedophile sentiment in our soceity today. I very strongly oppose any group which encourages pedophilia in any way, shape, or form, but support pedophiles getting together for the express purpose to encourage each other to not act out on their horrible sexual desires. Samboy 05:41, 10 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Your sense of morals and what you are willing to accept or support is entirely irrelevant to whether this article belongs in Wikipedia. --Zanthalon 06:46, 10 Aug 2004 (UTC)
No wonder you voted to keep the article. A quick perusal of your user contributions would suggest you wrote half of it. - Mark 06:59, 10 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Boylover communities also strongly object to the notion of being sick, since it's not exactly productive (and, depending on your sources, not exactly true). I absolutely resent being called "recovering". I am what I am, and I can never change it, but I can decide how I act. Also, I object to your using "pedophilia" as if it was a form of activity. Anybody opposes child sexual abuse, which is what sex with children almost always is, so call it that. Anyway, I was just offering my viewpoint, I'm afraid this thread will turn into a flamefest that will be completely off-topic to the subject at hand, so please, how you would like to distinct people to fit into your world view is not pertinent to whether or not we should keep, merge or delete this article. Addendum: Looking back through the revisions, I see the last "good" revision is 00:20, 7 Jul 2004, IMNSHO. This is an accurate and NPOV description of boylove (which is a good achievement considering there is no official definition or requirements for affiliation). Renaming the title to cover both girl- and boylove is strange, since a term like "childlove" is not something that's very much in use at all, and as has been pointed out here, sounds ambigious. I would probably recommend writing a seperate, though brief "Girllove" article and refer to the Boylove article from there. Also, make "Boylove" an alias for "Boylover" and likewise for "Girllove". Alternatively, extend Pedophilia to cover the movements and not be the purely clinical treatment it is today. As for the current "Childlove movement" article, upon further review, I feel like it has completely hijacked the Boylover article and I'm completely offended that it claims to represent me and the community I care so much about.
I can not fantom how desiring to have sex with a child is anything besides sick. Your desires are not normal, and acting on them can traumatize a child for life. Samboy 07:37, 10 Aug 2004 (UTC)
My desires are certainly not normal, but abnormality per se should not be shunned in a society. I am well aware that soliciting children for sex can traumatize them for life, which is exactly why i choose not to act on my sexual desires (I'm most likely the oldest "virgin" you'd ever know, and I intend to die as it). But thanks for the information anyway. 213.145.178.57 17:12, 10 Aug 2004 (UTC)
The idea is that the ones purposefully never acting on their desires are the honourable ones. Unfortunately, this article has been twisted in a whole other direction, to be almost propoganda for those who think it IS okay. - Mark 08:32, 10 Aug 2004 (UTC)

By "delete" I meant "merge" with the main article, redirect this one to that. I'm wondering if other people in the merge/delete categories dont think the same way... maybe there can be a "merger" between these two camps? -SV 18:13, 10 Aug 2004 (UTC)

I initially voted merge, then changed my vote to delete. I just don't wa0nt it kept as it is, that's all. - Mark 01:15, 11 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Meanwhile, Back at the Ranch and new project

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While everyone is here debating thw fate of this article (where consensus to delete isn't even close) I see that Boylover is back, or never left, with much of the same generally sympathetic content that Childlover (previous name of this) had before some of us tried to move it to NPOV. Reminds me of the line from Hammer to Fall: "Lock your door, but rain in puring through your window pane." -- Cecropia | Talk 22:59, 11 Aug 2004 (UTC)

well spotted! and now stepped on. Erich 06:46, 12 Aug 2004 (UTC)

mmm Cecro, that gets me thinking... I suspectect we need a Wikipedia:WikiProject Child safety to protect wikipedia from ongoing POV that may endanger children or bring wikipedia into disrupute. I created Category:pedophilia the other day to help group these articles together so we can all watch them. what people think about starting a project? Erich 06:52, 12 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Seriously, I'm not thrilled about this article, but the existence of an article describing a movement to repeal certain laws and transform societal taboos that will probably never be repealed or transformed doesn't harm children. Kids aren't going to go on Wikipedia, see this article, and say, "hey! I can meet some cool grown-ups here to have sex with!" (unless the people who wrote the article are right), and adults aren't going to see this article and think, "ohmigod! I never thought of having sex with children before! What a great idea!" Likewise, pedophiles aren't going to see the article and suddenly lose control and molest thousands of children. Of course, if you want to start a "child safety" group that's certainly your right, but I'd hope that you at least plan to use the Wikipedia:Cleanup and Wikipedia:Votes for deletion pages rather than go after articles all vigilante style as Lucky advises above. -Seth Mahoney 07:06, Aug 12, 2004 (UTC)
ah Seth, we need you on the project - which would hopefully be very quiet. My concern is misrepresentation of the truth and the promulgation of the idea that sexual activity is alright with children if X, Y and Z. I'd see a project doing some to the reconnaissance and helping to facilitate a true NPOV using the usual wiki mechanisms as you say. Have a look at the recent edits to Child sexual abuse... and child sexuality is a complete can of worms that needs some very careful science-based editing - I'm waiting for the resident pediatric endocrinologist to return from diabetes camp before nagging him to help me! Erich 07:32, 12 Aug 2004 (UTC)
You may have noticed already that I'm a little concerned with the tendency toward censorship and violently emotional, rather than rational, display that has been evident in this particular vote, so please bear with me while I tiptoe down this here slippery slope. What exactly is it that you're proposing? Where exactly do you draw the line? What, specifically, do you aim to protect children from? How, specifically, do you aim to do so? I'm assuming you're going to restrict your actions to articles specifically oriented toward pedophilia in our time and culture, but really, why stop there? Freud, for example, frequently argued that children, babies even, are very sexual beings, though he did stop short of saying that children should have or be allowed to have sex. Throughout most of human history puberty has been considered the marker of when it is permissable for a child to engage in sexual activity. Should we include a proviso on any article that discusses historical attitudes toward sex and age stating that this is not acceptable in our age? In some cultures that survive today, pre-pubescent children are expected to engage in what we would consider sexual activity (in the particular society I'm thinking of, its more of a ritualized coming of age thing), and grow up to be perfectly healthy. If we write articles on this interesting bit of sexual anthropology, should we include a note saying that, according to modern psychology, this society harms their children? I'd be glad to join the project, to censor the censors, as it were, but I'm remaining skeptical and cynical, and staying far away until there are strict guidelines as to its scope, methodology, and goals. -Seth Mahoney 09:16, Aug 12, 2004 (UTC)
Seth, i suspect we'd not disagree much at all. My motivation for a project comes from:
  1. the belief that this page contains an important debate that will not end after the fate of this page is resolved and
  2. a fear of the ongoing insidius POV insertion of our the pedophiles
  3. Overall, I think by bringing together the advocates, censors and censors' censors we'll end up with a better outcome. sound reasonable? Erich 22:41, 12 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Seth, I'm afraid I do fundamentally disagree with your approach, which might be appropriate to an article on cultural attitudes toward children and sexuality, but this article is not about that. It is about a modern movement among adults that wish to change law and culture in order to have sexual access to children. It's as simple as that and should be approached on that level. They say that there is evidence that even babies may have sexuality and that may be true, but they cite this to justify their having sexual access to children; they say that age-of-consent laws are arbitrary and that may be true, but they cite this to justify their having sexual access to children; they say that some young children may be competent to agree to sexual behavior and that may be true, but they cite this to justify their having sexual access to children; they say that young children may engage in sex play, and that may be true, but they cite this to justify their having sexual access to children, they say that some parents would heap guilt upon children for having sexual thoughts and that is bad, and that may be true, but they cite this to justify their having sexual access to children.
IOW, we are not dealing with scientists objectively trying to determine psychological truths and apply them to social reality, we are dealing with people working backwards from their personal desires to justify their behavior. -- Cecropia | Talk 07:05, 13 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Your comments are well-written and interesting, but have nothing to do with mine. -Seth Mahoney 18:09, Aug 13, 2004 (UTC)
Since when have scientists, mental health professionals or the intellectual elite been wholly objective in their anaylses of moral issues? Au contraire, science is often very sympathetic to the moral climate of the day (for a good example of what happens when scientists defy moral authority, see Galileo Galilei). In the last two centuries, homosexuality, masturbation and feminism have been shown to be bad, perverted or "against nature" by leading experts of the day in the "enlightened" nations of the West, whilst racism and slavery have been defended by them. "...we are dealing with people working backwards from their personal desires to justify their behavior..." could have been (and was) used by the opponents of any of the 20th century's civil rights movements in the same way that you are using it now. The process of writing this article has shown quite clearly that even highly intelligent people are often unable to suspend their own moral judgments in the interest of true objectivity. --Zanthalon 13:36, 13 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Insidious, eh? I haven't been keeping up with the various pedophilia-related articles, so I suppose I can't judge. Regardless, and I don't mean to be a jerk here, its certainly within your rights to create a child protection group, though to my knowledge a group aimed at censoring edits by and supporting a particular, well-defined group of people is unprecedented. If you do start this group, I'll certainly check in, and if, as I've stated above, you have clearly outlined goals, methods, and a strictly defined scope, I'd certainly consider joining. -Seth Mahoney 22:55, Aug 12, 2004 (UTC)
As you can see, Seth, I am in favor of keeping this article. I think we need to know what a real movement of a group wants, why they want it, how they hope it get it, and why they think they are entitled to it. As to a group to look at children's issues, some might want to use it for censorship, but I see nothing inherently wrong, any more than there are groups who interest themselves in other specialized issues. -- Cecropia | Talk 15:43, 13 Aug 2004 (UTC)
I'm not necessarily saying that there is anything inherently wrong with a group to protect children, though as you can see above I'm not exactly sure what the group is supposed to protect children from. What I am saying is that it is, again, as far as I know, something new in Wikipedia's history to create a group whose sole purpose is to watch and censor the edits of one particular, well-defined group of people (which I gather is what the planned group will be about). Singling out a group of people like this is fairly disturbing to me. My second concern, and its not that I honest-to-God believe this will happen, but that I want to be sure it doesn't, is that the group have immaculately defined boundaries so that members don't feel justified going into unrelated articles (say, articles on Freud or ancient Greece) and saying "this is harmful to children!", followed by VfDs and edits. -Seth Mahoney 18:09, Aug 13, 2004 (UTC)
hey Seth, I really don't think you need to worry about Cecro and I. Anyway I've created a project stub. Please sign up or at least put the project on your watchlist! All NPOV editors welcome. Erich 19:07, 13 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Well, Zanthalon actually gets to the point when he criticizes scientists and casts this as a moral issue. Pedophiles (and also, I understand, supporters of Bestiality) have come to say, "well, society has been against civil rights and feminism and homosexuality, and was wrong, so society must be wrong here and we are right." Why? Is everything that someone wants to do that society prohibits really good? Why? Because you want it? You are trying to back your self-serving theory with science and then portray yourself as more moral. Civil rights, feminism and homosexuality all have one thing in common: the argument that a group of adults are prevented from having the same rights as others similarly situated. Pedophiles are fighting for the right to have access to other people's children in the guise of "liberating" them. I grew up when Jim Crow was legal in the U.S. South. Black people (and many whites) were fighting for the right of all people to walk into a lunch counter, purchase a sandwich and sit down and eat it. They weren't fighting for the right of any group of people to walk into someone else's home and "liberate" their food. -- Cecropia | Talk 15:32, 13 Aug 2004 (UTC)
"They weren't fighting for the right of any group of people to walk into someone else's home and "liberate" their food." Yes, ownership is the issue here. This society does not treat children as human beings, but as property, just as men once treated their wives as property, slave owners treated their slaves (who were not, after all, even fully human) as property and landowners treated their peasants as property. In each case, the enfranchised claimed that some sort of "special status" entitled them to rights (to political and economic power as well as to ownership of the disenfranchised) that the disenfranchised did not have. Examples of such "special status" in the past are landowner or white or male. Now the "special status" of the enfranchised is adult. --Zanthalon 16:54, 13 Aug 2004 (UTC)
Once again you move to the heart of the issue. Minor children are a/the property of their parents in several meanings of the word. They are not the property of their parents in the sense of other property, that they may be bought and sold, or their persons or labor rented out at their parents' whim, but they are property in the sense that parents must protect and provide for them, and have the right to control many aspects of their lives, and it is expected that they will do this in a manner that is in the child's best interest. Many societies (and the U.S. especially, it would seem) are loath to step in the way of the parent's judgment on discretionary matters affecting their child.
Now let's be clear: there are organizations which attempt to intervene on behalf of children when they think the parents err, but the bar is, and should be, high where contravening the parents' wishes is concerned. But what these organizations all have in common is that, even if their concern or interest is debatable, they are expected to genuinely be interested in the child's welfare, without enhancing their own self-interest. We would not tolerate an organization that "rescued" children from an unfit parent in order to provide child labor to make cheap products for the organization's profit. Similarly, pedophiles are at interest in their concern for children's rights. What standing does an adult who wants to use a child sexually have to assert that the child is not the parent's "property," but is, in effect, their own? -- Cecropia | Talk 05:05, 14 Aug 2004 (UTC)

I'm sorry, it was my doing. This was not the article under dispute anyway, but I suppose it having been made a referer may perhaps include it as disputed. I don't believe in editing wars, and it won't happen again. That said, I tried hard to make the reinstated page completely objective, but focused on the boylove movement, not pedophilia as a clinical case or the kind of NAMBLA political activism of the current "Childlove movement" article (there are seperate pages for both of those). You have to understand that this article tries to document a social and widely online community and movement, and as such it has to be largely about how that community or movement views itself. In covering that aspect, some may perceive it as being "sympathetic", as was pointed out here. However, it also covers how the community is viewed from the outside, so it does attempt objectivity. I suppose we are at the limits of what is possible with a format such as Wikipedia -- covering this subject encyclopedically is not possible because of the strong moral feelings people have, and their firm beliefs about what is true. "Field experts" are disregarded. So the only way of covering the Boylove community is in such a way that readers from the community doesn't recognize it in the article and are left offended at the suggestion that they are criminal by association or clinically ill, when crime and illess is not even relevant. So, although my vote cannot count because I am not logged in as I post this, I now appeal to everyone to vote to delete "Boylove" as well as "Childlove movement". I hope to write a few sentences of the subject in Pedophilia perhaps, and we'll see if that is acceptable. 213.145.178.57 09:06, 12 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Please vote on Protection

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Sethmahoney just reverted a number of edits by User:Ta bu shi da yu. I'm taking no position on the quality of the edits, but I agree with Seth that major changes should not take place while we hash out the article's fate here. Protection is essentially frowned on in Wikipedia, but in special circumstances it can be useful, and I think this is one. So please vote whether I or another admin should Protect the article page until this is resolved or until we have a consensus to unprotect either here or on the article talk page. Addendum: Ta bu shi da yu has decided to continue editing the page despite the request to leave it be while we work here, so implicit if we agree to protect is that it will be the version standing before that user's edit.

Yes, Protect until we resolve this or agree to unprotect

  1. Cecropia | Talk 07:19, 14 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  2. A good idea. --Zanthalon 07:26, 14 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  3. Definately protect. -Seth Mahoney 07:34, Aug 14, 2004 (UTC)

No, don't protect


Discussion

  • Technically, the vote is over. An admin can take action after five days, but admin actions on VfDs are way backed up and policy and practice has been that people can continue to discuss and vote until an admin gets around to making a decision, so, as of now, this is an open issue. -- Cecropia | Talk 07:41, 14 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  • I thought it had been going on a long time... -Seth Mahoney 07:45, Aug 14, 2004 (UTC)
  • Because then it will be different from what people have been voting on. Please be a little patient. This has been a long process. -- Cecropia | Talk 10:07, 14 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Please vote on the next step

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This has been up for almost two weeks now (minimum time=five days) and I think we need to begin to move toward resolution. Two points from the Guideline for administrators and Deletion policy tell us that this article isn't going to be deleted. First, there needs to be a "rough consensus" to delete, generally accepted for purposes of deletion to be ~2/3. Second, is the boldfaced admonition: When in doubt, don't delete. So there is a prejudice on Wikipedia against deleting articles, and any admin that deleted this article now would be looking at a messy RfC.

Now this article, if the tally is correct, shows a plurality (21/8/18) to Keep the article. Even if we consider all the Merge votes to be Delete votes, we have a vote of 26-21 (55.32%) to delete, not even close to a rough consensus. So the question logically is: "do we prefer to keep this as a separate article, or delete it as a separate article and merge the content into Paedophilia?

Please, let's take this one step at a time. After we've decided this point, then we can discuss the mechanics of implementing the consensus. I'm leaving an Absolute Delete option, so deletionists don't feel disenfranchized, but please be aware that there is no consensus for absolute deletion, and your vote may be thrown out where you could have an opportunity to go for keep or merge.

Note: "Delete" with or without merge implies keeping a redirect, so there is no need for a separate category for these that would muddy this vote further.

Keep this as a separate article

  1. Cecropia | Talk 08:21, 14 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  2. Zanthalon 08:48, 14 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  3. Seth Mahoney 08:50, Aug 14, 2004 (UTC)
  4. Lussmu 10:03, 14 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  5. Starx 16:35, 15 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  6. [[User:Meelar|Meelar (talk)]] 18:08, 2004 Aug 15 (UTC)
  7. Acegikmo1 18:15, 15 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  8. 桜花 08:58, 16 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  9. BryanNR 15:00, 16 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  10. Erich 17:48, 16 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  11. [[User:33451|Mr. Grinch (Talk)]] 17:51, 16 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  12. Gary D 23:33, 16 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  13. cesarb 01:56, 18 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  14. Johnleemk | Talk 13:57, 18 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Delete and merge into Paedophilia

  1. Neutrality 18:04, 15 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  2. Sean Curtin 20:56, 15 Aug 2004 (UTC)
  3. Kevin Rector 18:35, Aug 17, 2004 (UTC)

Delete without merging

  1. Ta bu shi da yu 09:57, 14 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Comment

I think that any discussion of the future of this article needs to include a comprehensive discussion of the disposition of other articles dealing with this topic as well. I think that much of the trouble here began not just as a result of the controversial nature of this article, but as a result of not having an overall strategy for addressing the various issues in play here. Rather than approaching things in a logical fashion, more articles got tacked on here and there.

--Zanthalon 08:48, 14 Aug 2004 (UTC)

Keep. The subject matter is pretty sick, but no less real. --Starx 16:31, 15 Aug 2004 (UTC)

comment: I agree, although I would rephrase that as "The terms boylove and girllove have been floated as less pernicious sounding. Some advocates of decriminalizing adult-child sex, as well as many pedophiles who choose sexual abstinence, have promoted these terms in hopes of reducing the social stigma of the attraction to children or the practice of adult-child sex." Reasons: 1) The terms are not necessarily synonymous. 2) "childlove" is a word invented by wikipedians to come up with a general article title, and is not used in general. 3) "Pedophilia" is not criminalized, adult-child sex is. 4) The terms are used mainly to describe attraction (hence the "love" part), not necessarily desire for sex. I realize the term is from Definitions of pedophilia, and in fact I am one of the editors of that article. So I like the sentence to begin with, but the rewrite is a lot closer to the truth and has a lot less biased language in my opinion (in fact, I'll update the definitions article). Disclaimer: I am a boylover (one who has chosen a life of abstinence) and although I as such know plenty about the terms and the communities behind them, you can't know if my rewrite of the term is part of a grande conspiracy to enslave your children. You have only my word to believe when I say I would really, really like the truth to be covered about this topic. Clayboy 23:38, 17 Aug 2004 (UTC)

This page is now preserved as an archive of the debate and, like other '/delete' pages is no longer 'live'. Subsequent comments on the issue, the deletion or on the decision-making process should be placed on the relevant 'live' pages. Please do not edit this page.